Hilary Keyes

Originally from Niagara Falls, Canada, Hilary Keyes has lived in Tokyo for nearly two decades. A translator, writer (fiction and non-fiction), and artist, Hilary also dabbles in bonsai care and design. She's traveled the length and breadth of Japan, studying its culture and subcultures indepth wherever she goes.

Articles By Hilary

Ask Hilary: Questions From Readers Answered

Letters from Japan: “Why Do I Have To Pay?”

February 23, 2025 | Ask Hilary, Love & Relationships

No, 'someone nice' is not the right answer!

Handling The ‘What’s Your Type?’ Question in Japan

February 16, 2025 | Lifestyle, Relationships

Apply Old Advice To Modern Relationships

Timeless Marriage Advice For Women

February 12, 2025 | Lifestyle, Relationships

Treat The No. 1 Person In Your Life: Yourself!

5 Japanese Gifts To Give Yourself This Valentine’s Day

February 10, 2025 | Lifestyle, Health & Beauty

Lovingly Made Chocolates & Impractical Magic

Celebrating Valentine’s Day in Japan

February 6, 2025 | Lifestyle, Relationships

From Dirty Talk To Discussing Size

A Foreign Girl’s Guide On How To Discuss Sex With Your Japanese Guy

February 2, 2025 | Lifestyle, Relationships

Romance across cultures and languages can be difficult—but never impossible

2 Keys To Making Multilingual Relationships Work

January 26, 2025 | Relationships

Hot Flashes and Doctor Shopping

Perimenopause & Menopause in Japan

January 22, 2025 | Health & Beauty, Women's Issues

Relationship Advice Wanted

Letters From Japan: “We’re Dating, But He Won’t Let Me Call Him My ‘Boyfriend.’ Is Something Wrong?”

January 19, 2025 | Ask Hilary, Relationships

It's Not All Champagne & Nights Out

Could You Date A Japanese Host? Here’s My Experience

January 12, 2025 | Love & Relationships

Don't Let Allergies Stop You From Trying New Food

Food Allergies in Japan: A Quick Guide To Know & Understand Them

January 9, 2025 | Health & Beauty, Lifestyle